It’s very hard to accept the plain and unpleasant fact that this change in your man’s calling behavior almost always means he is losing interest in the relationship.
When this happens, women so often say things like, “Things were wonderful between us. Then he stopped calling. What does this mean?”
What does it mean?? You won’t have to call in the FBI to figure it out.
You’ll save yourself precious weeks, months, and years of putting your life on hold if you learn to interpret a man’s not calling you (or calling you less) to mean exactly what it does mean: he is moving away from your relationship. Better to face the facts early and plainly, so you can respond in the way that gives you the best chance to keep your relationship with him – if staying with him is what you want.
Otherwise you’ll find yourself calling him to ask him the same question, “What does this mean?” Trust me; that will not improve matters! That’s not how to handle this situation.
No relationship stands still. It’s either getting closer or getting farther apart. Your actions will affect the relationship even now, when his interest seems to be waning.
Of course, you can almost always judge a man's feelings by his actions. If you ask him straight out if he's losing interest in you, he may not tell you.
Your man may not be sure of his feelings just yet. He doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or get into a heavy discussion, either. He may also want to hang on to you to at least some extent. But if you’re smart, you’ll base your opinions entirely on your man’s actions – nothing more and nothing less.
If you don’t, you’ll spend valuable time waiting and waiting with false hope.
You could also change the situation from one where your man was considering backing away from you to a breakup that is now written in stone – if you make the wrong moves now.
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When this happens, women so often say things like, “Things were wonderful between us. Then he stopped calling. What does this mean?”
What does it mean?? You won’t have to call in the FBI to figure it out.
You’ll save yourself precious weeks, months, and years of putting your life on hold if you learn to interpret a man’s not calling you (or calling you less) to mean exactly what it does mean: he is moving away from your relationship. Better to face the facts early and plainly, so you can respond in the way that gives you the best chance to keep your relationship with him – if staying with him is what you want.
Otherwise you’ll find yourself calling him to ask him the same question, “What does this mean?” Trust me; that will not improve matters! That’s not how to handle this situation.
No relationship stands still. It’s either getting closer or getting farther apart. Your actions will affect the relationship even now, when his interest seems to be waning.
Of course, you can almost always judge a man's feelings by his actions. If you ask him straight out if he's losing interest in you, he may not tell you.
Your man may not be sure of his feelings just yet. He doesn’t want to hurt your feelings or get into a heavy discussion, either. He may also want to hang on to you to at least some extent. But if you’re smart, you’ll base your opinions entirely on your man’s actions – nothing more and nothing less.
If you don’t, you’ll spend valuable time waiting and waiting with false hope.
You could also change the situation from one where your man was considering backing away from you to a breakup that is now written in stone – if you make the wrong moves now.
To get daily relationship advice like this, sign up for my daily email column on my website at Calling Men - The Complete Guide to Calling and Texting the Men You Date!